NDS, I would make sure you have copies (e-mails, txts, phone records)if you need them for your attorney. I would also be upfront with your W and still set some boundaries. I know you don't want to but you will need to get the ball rolling on this. Be prepared for some push back. You can handle it. Coach
Coach I have printed out a few FB messages, but they were pretty careful with there contacts and she keeps her phone close. The text records are online and go month to month so I don't know how far back I can go.
At this point she may very well be planning on being with him physically and starting right in on a new R, so I'm not sure where that leaves me legally.
I'm still thinking in some respects the ball is still in her court for filing a separation, and if she drags her feet on that I will have more time to get info?...I have no idea...all new to me brother.
Guess a visit with a lawyer just to get some info would be a good start.
The messages and texts that I have seen tell me that the OM seems to be a very immature man about her age and she seems to be going back in time....very juvenile things from the both of them. They seem to think that they are in love.
All very bizarre considering this past year. I have read it all on here, but until it hits you in the face, you just cannot imagine.
