Ohhh. Sorry you got that bit of news. So, is she NOT doing volunteer work there? Was everything a lie?
I know exactly how you feel about the changes in your wife. My h changed so much that I don't know him know, and I don't like him. I love him as he was when we met, before the last 3yrs. It's so hard.
You're such a good-hearted guy. Your wife is blind and she doesn't want to know for who you are.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."