Okay, I guess you've scored one there on the whole Vangelis controversy.
Kind of a plateau day, to borrow from @Thinker's post over at @alive's house on peaks 'n' valleys. But the plateau isn't a bad place to be, necessarily. I'm not "actively" DB'ing today; WAW isn't "actively" WAW'ing today.
It's led me to think that in some respects we LBS are too dam active -- always doing this that 'n't'other. Gotta GAL! Gotta 180! Gotta validate! Gotta change! Gotta listen! Gotta hear! Gotta not-push! Gotta As If! Gotta read Schnarch! Gotta read Codependent! Gotta read MWD! Gotta read Love Languages! Gotta read N.U.T.S.! Gotta this! Gotta that! (Gotta go potty!)
I'm thinking that from time-to-time maybe we could consider adding "Gotta Chill!" to the DB'ers kit-bag. The Walkaway isn't scheming constantly. I mean, they do have jobs and stuff. Perhaps one (unspoken?) commandment to DB'ing successfully, whether one "saves" the marriage or "merely" saves her/himself, is (or should be) Left-Behind, Pace Thyself.
