I know what I've done and didnt do. Tonight I ended the convo, replayed it in my head and dang!!! H is not living in the real world! I am serious. All the things he said about jobs and money and many details I cant even start to explain here. He is living in a microworld of his own, isolated, probably protecting himself from interactions with live human beings INCLUDING his kids. I remember what he once told me, "everybody I love dies". I am not talking about me, I repeat, even his life with our kids that I know he adores...Everybody always thought he was a private person that kept to himself but I think this has gotten worse. He is not living. Seriously. And he hides behind "I dont like, I am not like that, I am this way...".He is making himself believe that instead of facing it.
I cant explain it. To me, and I AM NOT EXCUSING him, seems like he is living in a weird situation. I have said before he may be depressed but now..., I think this is absurd.
How do you tell someone you think they be loosing it? K
