NDS, I would make sure you have copies (e-mails, txts, phone records)if you need them for your attorney. I would also be upfront with your W and still set some boundaries. I know you don't want to but you will need to get the ball rolling on this. Be prepared for some push back. You can handle it. Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.