Mixed emotions

[Jeanette1120]

Hi Ms. K

I'm sorry to see that he's still being the pain in the usual a*s, but for some of them....it is who they are.

I know you don't want to leave your home....but if your ever want to move on, you really don't want it hangning over your head.

I too, had that same agreement as you to sell our home that we watched being built, I too had the X tell the realtor to take it off the market as HE wanted to wait for the prices to come back up.

That was 2 years ago...

It's tiring Ms. K.

You never know if the mortgage is beingn paid or when the rug is going to be pulled out from under you and the number one thing, in my opinion, you do not get the chance to move on as your still in the house that holds so many memories, your still in the house that he has so much control over.

Finally after 2 contempt of court motions.....I had him buy ME OUT of the house. He can have it. I want my own place where there are no memories, where he has ZERO control over.

It doesn't even bother me (not a lot anyway ) that Rich and his new wife will move into our home. Let her deal with my memories with him. It's all good.

I too, don't quite know where I'm going, but I do know he will have nothing to do with it, and that alone gives me peace.

Why they want to keep control over us, I haven't a clue anymore, I stopped trying to make sense of it. It did finally come out that his new wifes home was going up for auction and they needed a place to stay...so after all this time, perhaps that is why he kept the house? It's all to twisted for me.

If at all possible, you go ahead and get the permit and have the money taken out of his share.

Don't let him have his way anymore.

Move forward with your life, build new memories with your children, find you a new home that will be all yours and he can't walk into it or tell you what to do concerning it.

You will find that it's not that bad at all.

In fact.....it's wonderful!

Wishing you the best!

Jeanette