That brings me to my thoughts of digging in, taking care of my home, keeping myself busy around there, getting away when I can and letting her know that I will not go as planned. The game has been changed...the rules have been changed, and I have made some mistakes...but I never asked to end the marriage and if I have to struggle I will. I will not give up my home.
GOOD!! Why should you???
btw, if your goal is NOT to save your marriage, then I wouldn't expose (although I wouldn't lie to anyone who asked me a direct question, either). I'm only a proponent of exposure as a technique to try and save the marriage.
