I agree with the others. She has you sussed visa vis the snooping on her emails and as far as I can see she uses that as a tool against you.

You know what you should do.....and you know what you will do. I suspect the two things may well not be the same.

Only you will know when it is time to call 'time' on the whole proceedings.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength