Originally Posted By: Bridgestone
Originally Posted By: antlers
But how do I show consistent, loving actions when we NEVER see each other?



Maybe, just maybe.. right now to your WAW that is the most loving, consistent, kind thing you can do....




Hi Bridge...I've thought about that very thing...a lot! I made her feel so disregarded, devalued, and rejected over the years...I don't know how long it's gonna take her to heal! I just know that I hope she does heal. If I had promoted compassion in our marriage, I am confident there would not have been the resentment, anger, and abuse that was there. I was an idiot...I just didn't know how to deal with stuff (insecurities) in an appropriate manner.

Anyway...I think it's possible that you are right about your statement above. I appreciate you Bridgestone.


"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.