my little cottage by the mlc sea

[fisherman]

Hey ladies,


For me right now it's all about the kids and boundaries, nothing more. If she respects those, then I'm good with her and we will get along fine.

I just need to watch how I communicate with her. It's easy to lose your cool in all of this. Doing OK so far.

[still.struggling]

Just wanted to drop in and say good morning.

[fisherman]

Good morning,

Wow!!

I just had a huge email exchange. Strange stuff fo sho!!

She still says we ARE and ALWAYS will be a family...just with two separate homes now.

She still wishes that I would be there for her.

I was nothing but real. I told her I disagreed.

There were a few other strange things that were said.

Gotta love it.

[fisherman]

She doesn't get it......

"you don't have to like me, but we will always be a family."

"I wish you would be there for me."

......still very much in the land of the lost.

[still.struggling]

I still get "I hope we can be best of friends one day".

Umm....sure, bring your new girlfriend and lets have a cookout. We can talk about old stories. NOT!!!!

[fisherman]

Just to clarify..... I really didn't come out and say that I disagreed. I did do that regarding some other stuff.

I quoted what she had wrote to me and responded with.

I am in no way angry nor am I saying this sarcastically, but you still want me to be there for you?? Now??

I don't know what to say to that.

That was my reply.

[Jimbo]

Just to clarify..... I really didn't come out and say that I disagreed. I did do that regarding some other stuff.

I quoted what she had wrote to me and responded with.

I am in no way angry nor am I saying this sarcastically, but you still want me to be there for you?? Now??

I don't know what to say to that.

That was my reply.

MLC Translator Program for Windows V0.3beta
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Input query: you don't have to like me, but we will always be a family.

Translation: Do you still like me? I miss what we were, but it's complicated.


Input query: I wish you would be there for me.

Translation: I want you around- not too close, but not too far. It's complicated.


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[fisherman]

Hey Jimbo!!

Good stuff!

We are always told that it is blah blah blah.

I don't know, it's gotta mean something. I know better that to put much thought in to it though.

I keep telling myself to just live.

Keep walking.

Keep praying

Stop looking back.

Stop asking.... whatever is supposed to happen will.

[Jimbo]

Hey Jimbo!!

Good stuff!

We are always told that it is blah blah blah.

I don't know, it's gotta mean something. I know better that to put much thought in to it though.

I keep telling myself to just live.

Keep walking.

Keep praying

Stop looking back.

Stop asking.... whatever is supposed to happen will.

Yes indeed, my brother.

It DOES mean something....it just gets lost in translation.

Same thing with actions. Right now, her actions aren't hooking up with her words. Because her words aren't hooking up with anything that you or I or anybody else except her can understand.

And if I were willing to bet, I'd say SHE doesn't even understand them herself!

So it's a breakdown all around. But the day will come when she figures it all out, and can COMMUNICATE it. In both her words AND her actions.......Believe

[SoCo]

Sounds like a good plan you have there t. Keep telling yourself that. I really hate when I can "hear" my friends pain through their posts. It makes me want to kick someone's crazy mlc a*s. Besides my own idiot's...

Jimbo, I love your mlc translator. I should feed you some of the insane nonsense I've been hearing lately and see what comes out. Or the translator might just say f it and blow up. lol