he was back, i think

[mdoodles]

so get this -- i get a letter in the mail today from my lawyer, enclosing a letter from h's lawyer looking to make a settlment with me!!!! is he for real?????

it is dated from last week and if i tell u how he has been acting, i am totally shocked by the letter.

i knew he had called his lawyer 3 weeks ago, didnt think i was ever going to hear anything.

i left a message for my lawyer, when he calls me back, i am going to tell him to sit on this. there is no time frame for a response, let his lawyer reach out again. and when he does, mine can tell him im "thinking" it over...as if!

at the end of the day, if this is what he wants, fine. but im not settling anything, i have gathered and saved all of my documents and proof to protect and support my case to show that nothing gets split down the middle based on his actions.

in the meantime, im in no hurry.

i know this girl is looking to marry him. she can keep waiting.

so happy to know new york does legal separation....something tells me she doesnt know about it.

i do realize i focus too much on ow, cant help it, i just cant.

i will protect myself of course, but im in no hurry to speed this along.