No you were right that is what I said. I am just looking for an "in" no matter how it is dressed.

So let me change what I am saying.

How can I begin to rebuild trust and take advantage of this situation.

Can you help me articulate an "explanation" that will make it easier for her to understand and move forward (with me)?

Not beating on myself.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1730055&page=1

Me 36
W 28
Married 02
Separated 9/08