OK for men with wives having an affair, has OM...

[pauld2100]

Your right about that underestimates me TOTALY! And yes I have told them that they can call me anytime but she has been telling them to not talk to me about certain things they of course think and or thought that meant not at all so he has went around her to talk to me… She also does not see her going out till 4:00 am to be with OM as a problem! I have not come down on her just standing firm on this!
In also trying to keep things respectful as to Mom’s rules I always and will do my best to keep that…. Unfortunately that can also be very hard when she will only communicate a little and things will get confusing for them…. I will contact social services if she does it again I know she may feel threatened by this but I will have to put to the right way and will, She does not know that I know she was out doing this..!!!! I have balls just haven’t been using them…...

She also thinks because they are 12 and 16 they can be on there own!