with her suspicious mind she will guess I am just checking up on her. She has told me often enough she does not trust me, and without getting into a tit-for-tat argument I will calmly ask her for the receipts to verify her purchases. If it was the other way around and I never had anything to hide, I would provide the necessary receipts. In fact it would work both ways as she would have backed up her expenditure and validated the bill which would prove to herself and me she is not trying to con me, and for me it is peace of mind that at least we can have a degree of 'trust' in monetary terms at least.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years