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[pauld2100]

I promise you I am not doing this to them! I have to watch her use them and allow them to control her as well.... It's so messed up! I have always suggested to my W that we don't talk in front of them but she insists to dissregaurd this and do it anyway.... I sent her an e-mail and stood my ground for him, she came back with thats ok but didn't want me at the house when she was there SO I told her I don't want to see her! and I have moved on! I have not done anything like that yet! She didn't respond to that e-mail.... I am not going to be mean but I may have to do more for the kids and that will seem like I am a jerk but OH well I told her do what ever you want to yourself... Just wish I had more resources....