I usually have a difficult time with being so hard core with my wayward spouse because I see her as ill, but Mr. Tails is on the mark with this.

YOU NEVER EVER MESS WITH THE KIDS!!!! THEY COME FIRST IN EVERY SITUATION!!

Plus, kids that are messed with end up being crazy spouses for someone else to deal with in the future.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1730055&page=1

Me 36
W 28
Married 02
Separated 9/08