Newly separated...spouse left, 4th thread

[antlers]

I'm not sure what good the note would do. Like you said she knows you asked for forgiveness she's choosing right now not to forgive you. You haven't initiated any calls why tell her your not going to do something you're already not doing?

Hey volleydog.

I don't know. That's why I'm looking for feedback here. She already knows how I feel, and she already knows about me not initiating any communication. But what about the notion that was mentioned here that our wives want us to 'fight for them'?