Alive...I was checking in on you here and it is funny, but I read the posts from Coach and SP...they are so much more qualified for advice...I realize that I am here thinking of you and for support!!!!! They are the bomb! It got me thinking about you and your wit, charm and wonderfully insightful self. These two seem to click with you intellectually. I know you have said that H does too, but just look at the potential for finding somebody out there who wants to spend much more time delving into YOUR feelings, and getting into YOUR mind IRL. Interested in what YOU are thinking and what YOU might say next. I am not saying that you should give up on H or your M...I am just saying that you should run, not walk to joining that writing group. Just a thought....