Hi have not been on here for a while, have been having a rough time of it. My h is still with the ow and is being very cocky and sure of himself. He even took our children to play with her kids and her the other day behind my back. As you can imagine I was not happy. I know this will happen in time but he did not even give the kids a choice in the matter which I also find so selfish. They are going through enough at the moment but all he can think about is himself and his new life. He is asking for a divorce now and he can have it, I am tired and worn out feel I have aged 10 years. I thought it would get easier but instead it is getting harder. He even took them away on holiday in May which again our kids were so hurt and jealous as our summer holiday of course he will not be coming on. They imagine him playing on the beach with her kids and they got very upset. He should be doing that with us said my eldest son. It just breaks my heart. I had to endure seeing them together a few weeks ago with my son and they were like a pair of 16 year olds. Hugging and kissing like they couldn't get enough of each other. They are in their 40's for gods sake. Yes what you do in private is fine but in front of the son you have just walked out on and your long suffering wife well where is the respect. When I asked him he just said it was no show this is the way they always are. Other people have commented to me also about this and I have to say I was embarrassed for him and also myself that he is still my husband.
