We never seperated. But I never really dealt with it. The day it happend July 6, 2006 I did leave for the night with my boys in tow.
He was ashamed etc. Told me he was looking for attention... did I say he was insecure very very insecure. He is a very needy person. I am not. I do take responsiblity for part of it, but not all of it.
We have our ups and downs, but ive been at this for almost 3 years.. We both do not want to leave the marriage, but its hard work. We've had set backs since the incident in July, a recent one that was really big, we were very close to seperating, but he finally agreed to go to IC. But because of our finacial situation we haven't been able to go, Ive been trying to find out what our ins. covers.
Anyways we've been M for a long time, and I do think he loves me, but is needing more from me.. and with 2 small boys to care for I get burnt out.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
very very insecure. He is a very needy person. I am not. I do take responsiblity for part of it, but not all of it. 