Thanks for posting diane74... I have been thinking alot about my timeline, and it has been a relatively short process so far...we started having big issues in March and H left in April. So, I will give myself more time, although it is silly to put an actual date. My MC told me to re-evaluate that each and every day. "If things stay the same as they are RIGHT NOW, how long am I good for???" The only problem is that things never stay the same, they are wildly changing and swinging in all different directions. I am of course referring to my emotions. But when I go back to the basics of my MC's question...it slows and calms me down. I have thought about giving him that tough question and I do have a timeline for that...another month when my lease is up, I may feel it out for a little pressure if my DBing continues to show progress. We'll see, alot can (and will) happen in a month! Thank you for your encouragement! Off to check out your sitch!
