Thanks dburt, this is really what I was thinking and you put it into words. Thanks for validating my feelings of interest and how "B" made me feel good. But the reality is I am married, and I want my H back.
I don't know if I could pull off the little birdie, but I can reinforce my GAL and I will do that tonight when H picks up the girls. This weekend is my weekend and Sunday is Father's Day so I will give them up and try to find something to do that gets my mind off not spending the day with them.
Yesterday when H was picking up the girls they expressed that they did NOT want to go to his house. That they wanted to stay with me. H was upset I could tell...and today he is taking them to the fair. Go figure.
Anyway, back to the basics of DBing.
Dburt, thanks I will try to subtly make him jealous. You are so right how powerful it is.