How is she noticing me when we NEVER see each other?
It's time I let you guys in on a secret. There is a website call "Marriage Crushers" by Mickey Frankfurter-Dodge, it's for WASs. Topics include - Fog machines, 360s, Bombs and other IEDs, DAM, etc. Your W has a thread on there and she is all over the changes you are making. I think your W's handle is "Mrs Deer Horns." You guys have no idea how much you are being watched. Trust me.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.