Well, H is back from his trip. Haven't heard from him yet, but he'll probably stop by to get the last of his stuff.

Any other opinions about what I owe him financially concerning the previous post?

I do want to spend time with my SS, but would H look at that as pursuing and not giving him the space he wants? I want H to begin to realize what he's missing when I'm completely absent from his or SS life anymore. So should I continue going completely dark or should I ask to pick up/spend time with SS?

Me 40
WAH 43
T years
M 10 months
stepson 9
H moved out 1 month ago
No D filed