It's a no-no for you to pick him up at her house? Is it an agreement to meet in a neutral place? Is it more important to get your time with your child, or to follow the letter of the legal agreement regarding the pick up place? Pick your battles you know.
It's a no-no to use to the kids to make any schedule changes. This will also be addressed hopefuly today. I did just send a 'ice breaker' text to XW that the local AHL hockey team meeting I went to last night was fairly uneventful and not one of the players were in a attendance, just the general manager, so the boys would have been bored to tears, I know I was. When I told XW I was going last night she wanted to know why I wasn't taking the kids, I told her it was a last minute ordeal and I was already running late for it. Probably won't net a response, but I really want to try and repair our lines of communication and get things to a better or best as possible standing between us.
She just carries so much resentment and has made herself believe that all her stories are true and justify what she's done and it's soooo frustrating. And then within a few minutes, she will hint that she somewhat regrets what she's done but then regresses and goes right back to resentment.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
