Antlers, What are your W's LLs? If she is a WOA then the note might help. Otherwise find ways to interact more without pursuing. Your W is noticing you and all of your self-care. I think the reason to show we are still interested is because our wives want us to "fight" for them. No expectations, be prepared for push back and don't take any bait. Cheers
What's a WOA Coach? What other ways of interacting without pursuing, under our circumstances, are there? How is she noticing me when we NEVER see each other?
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.