Like I said - I dont have children so maybe I should not be expressing my opinion on the matter. But I was a child of divorce (late teen/early 20 something) and I know how difficult it was for me and my sister (my sister is 3 yrs younger than me) to hear things from my dad.
I do think validation, no matter what the age of the person, is really important. I guess age appropriate validation is key. And maybe if Kevin alwayd didnt try and make his W the bad guy I might tend to agree with your more but the pattern has been ongoing.
But thank you for giving me a new way to think even if it doesnt apply to my situation!