I have been following this thread for a long time because I believe there to be some very good advice...although I have never before commented. My MC told me the same thing that if my sitch ends in D, it is not inappropriate to be honest in what each parent's stance was/is.

I believe in protecting our children, but also in being truthful. It's a hard line to balance, but I think Puppy did a good job of validating 2 different opinions in a respectful way above.


Me 36, Him 33
M 11yrs, T 15yrs
S 8, D 7
ILYBINILWY - 1/09
H moves out 10/09
D to be final SOON I HOPE!