Antlers, What are your W's LLs? If she is a WOA then the note might help. Otherwise find ways to interact more without pursuing. Your W is noticing you and all of your self-care. I think the reason to show we are still interested is because our wives want us to "fight" for them. No expectations, be prepared for push back and don't take any bait. Cheers
Perhaps some of the hit and run flirting I described on another thread...was it Stuck's? Can't remember...
