Got nowhere with XW trying to settle the air. I don't know how much simpler I can make this, there is no point in continuing to fight anymore! Xw says it's because I get an attitude with her, well, you took everything in my life away and show no remorse for doing so, what do you expect?
I apologized for my uneccesary comments and behavior. did XW? heck no.
So let's factor in no food, and one too many beers, and viola! Recipe for for destruction. My cousin's pissed at me, my XW won't drop it already, missed work, almost caused myself serious bodily harm trying skateboard (the way I used to blow steam off), and now I'm just at a rebuilding stage again. Eh well, as fast they come on I'm getting better at getting over it quicker.
As far XW withholding the kids, yep, it's against the joint parenting agreement and I already told her that I will not tolerate it. So what does she finally do, have S12 leave a coached message asking if I can pick them up at 'her house' on Friday for the weekend (another no-no) at a time when she knew I couldn't answer my phone. XW has displayed time and time again that she cares very little what any of the legalities of situation imply, and some day that will be her undoing.
I just really wish this animosity could be dropped and life be some what saner. Would we be best buddies? No, not by a long shot. Some of what she says tho, really screams she regrets wht she's done, but it's a bit too late for that. ugggh.
As for new person in my life, we clearred the air on the issue, however I am going to take a few steps back and work to resolve the issues with XW before anything else transpires.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
