Sometimes there are blessings in disguise....do what you can to handle the job crap with a calm head....that's such a turn on when men are confident and not worried about such things....as if not only do they know they are going to land on their feet, they act as if they already have. Very sexy. Just keep moving forward. Stop her from talking about the divorce etc as much as possible, but I guess really, you did have to discuss that stuff last night. I agree that it was stuff you needed to know. Maybe she's having second thoughts.....maybe she's sort of relieved and can use this as an excuse to slow things down...???