Hopeful--I COMPLETELY agree. Old biker guys are not my idea of heaven on Earth. I have a girlfriend also now divorcing. She and her H have been in limboland for more than a year now and she's a lot further along in getting out and starting over. She's got a great outlook and is actually looking forward to dating again and having those high school-like feelings again with someone. But I'm with you....yuck. I don't want to do that crap again for any amount in the world.
