Originally Posted By: Coach
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You? You've been given a gift here. He's given you the gift of yourself. Not just the need, the Freedom to define Who You Are and How You Roll.

Let's cut to the chase here -- does anyone really believe I'm as grounded as I sound? I'm a mental case! But the one thing I know is that this divorce has been a gift to me -- I am in Complete Control of defining how I act, how I react, and who I become as a result of it. That might NEVER have happened without the Bomb. That's what has given me the power to forgive WAW. Would I prefer not to be divorced? Of course! But given that I am, who better to determine How I Roll than....me?


Yep you have a choice in how you handle this part of your life. Alive, have you read "The Meaning of Life" by Victor Frankl? If not check it out.
Cheers


I read it long ago. Will read it again. Thanks.

I get this. I'm resisting jumping into the abyss...but it must happen. My journey has to happen. Perhaps I thought I was in control...I need to open up to the life that is calling me even if I can't see it clearly now.

On the upside, while I writhe on here and as I sleep, I feel the momentum building and perhaps it is ok that it takes me some time to gear up. I have a lot of work to do and my life will soon change drastically.