I'm not sure what good the note would do. Like you said she knows you asked for forgiveness she's choosing right now not to forgive you. You haven't initiated any calls why tell her your not going to do something you're already not doing?
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."