No hugs yesterday, but I'm not bent out of shape about it... H came over in the morning to have his day with our daughter, I came home for lunch so that he could run out and get his hair cut before his drill this weekend. He brought me lunch on his way back, I told him I really appreciated it. Went back to work, did some volunteer thing with YMCA for a few hours, came home, H actually sat around and played with DD and me (he did have pants in the dryer though) for a while before he left to go to his friend's wake. He had also cleaned the catbox for me! (I've had to do it the last few times - since I'm pregnant I'm not supposed to - I appreciated that!)
He was headed back towards the house this morning (meeting another coworker to go to the funeral) and his car died on the interstate right outside of my work and he called to see if I could help him out - it started back up by the time I got out of my parking lot so I didn't have to do anything... But he will probably be taking the day off so that he can get his car fixed.
I also noticed that he had taken some pictures out of collage frames that we had stacked in our "spare" bedroom, and he had turned the frames towards the wall (maybe that I wouldn't notice?) I'm not going to freak out about it - it was pictures of him, or him and his dad and brother, or him and our pet ferret that we had many years ago. They are his to do what he wants with...
(As long as he didn't find my new comforter set that I spent $150 on the other day that I'm hiding in the closet in that room ;-))
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011