I think this may just be the final post in my saga on here....
I have now been, thanks to the failing of my business, made bankrupt. I have a house that I am about to lose and no assets. Not much to show for 50 years of life.
However, I have a happy outlook, a new place to start from and a great chance to rebuild my life from the ground up.
I have a new job, the best one I have had for years, a new love of my life, again, the best one I have had for years and a mindset full of optimism.
There was a time when I felt bitter about what has happened over the last year, when I would have taken half my W's inheritance out of spite, not anymore though. I have learned SO much about myself, relationships and people in general recently that I have no desire to put negative energy back into my life.
I am walking away from my old self and picking up speed into my new self. The remainders from my old life are great as well...a lot of happy memories of the good times, 2 wonderful sons and a wealth of experience.
Never let anyone tell you that things are bad, they are just different.
Onwards and upwards....
Thanks to EVERYONE on here that has supported me, helped me, listened to me and also allowed me to give them a little help i return. You have been great.
I will still pop in from now and again and check on whoever is still here.