She sounds like she's wallowing in a pool of guilt (female view), probably snowballed into clinical depression.
Did he put her on AD's? A friend of mine just went on them recently, and her pupils are dilated non-stop! Her's are blatantly obvious, too, as she has blue eyes.
Sounds like you're doing all you can. Is she functioning okay when she has the children?
Good luck on that mortgage payment! It can't be hard now trying to cover two "households," especially when your W is a student!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
