If she wants to move away then she can let you have full custody.
Exactly! She won't get the relocation clause in the agreement. No chance. Our state makes it VERY tough for one parent to claim the need to relocate. As long as they can support themselves in any way, the state says that's good enough, the kids and the other parent's right come before "job satisfaction" or "job advancement" or salary. I knew the moment my W left me that she was essentially trapping us right here until our youngest is out of high school. Given that she's not even in kindergarten yet, that's going to be a while. But as usual, my W doesn't want to accept that, and wants to believe that she can move away and everything will be just fine.
I sometimes do wonder about counseling for our kids. In general they are doing really well with everything, but they are hurting inside, no doubt. Breaks my heart even more. I can't believe W can just live with this. One thing I always had faith in was our absolute complete devotion and love and selflessness where our kids were concerned. But now my W is clearly putting herself above the kids. I don't think I could ever voluntarily do anything that led to so much pain and grief for our kids.
I'd say any plans for Disneyworld are off at this point. In fact, I think we're entering a much less friendly phase of this whole process :-(.
