Alright so I have decided that it is time to man up. It maybe against DB principles as I have been following for a while even when she said that she wanted a D I just said I dont but if that is what she wants then go ahead with it. I haven't talked to her in a week so no sure if she even talked to a L or anything. But I really think that it is time for me to Man Up. Through out the marriage everything was her way. As today is my B-day and don't want to be in a poor mood today as I dont know what she will say.

So tomorrow I plan to call her up and let her know that I am moving back to house and that if she really wants this D then she will have to be the one to move out. Also I plan to tell her that when we got married we were to work through things together and not to be pissy for 4 weeks and then tell me that she wants a D. Whatever the outcome maybe at least I don't have to sleep in a friends spare bedroom and I can get on with my life in my house. If she looks at me as seeing respect in me for finally standing up for myself then so be it. If she gets pissed because I am around again then she has to deal with that as well.

"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33