Thanks for the input...I do think I'm at the point were the not pursuing part of DBing probably needs to take a backseat. If pursuing doesn't work and it pushes her faster I really haven't lost anything but a little bit of time.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
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