I don't usually post to you but this caught my eye.

I could not agree more about not being there for the pick up.

They want you there for the dramatics.

It gives them control and power.

I left my ex's stuff out on the driveway.

I literally saw him pull up, look around for me, and leave.

He later contacted me and told me he would have to set it up for another day.

He did the same thing a week later. He never picked anything up. 2 years later....nothing.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11