Don't Let Them Eat Cake

[In Limbo]

Peace and CL,

Thanks for the feedback. At this point, I've decided not to go. I've also made no effort to help H plan, make reservations, etc. To my knowledge he's still done none of that and yet plans to leave tomorrow evening. I will pack for the boys so I'm sure they have what they need, but that will be the extent of my involvement. Things between us have been very difficult the past week or so. We've been fighting, which hasn't really happened since the bomb.

We have another trip already planned and paid for in July that we will both go on with the boys. H has said he may not go. Either way, I'm fine with it. I just don't care to go on a trip where my invitation is solely based on a desire to have me "take care of things."

We have a MC appointment today. H hasn't shown up for the last two, since we had a very difficult session where he and the MC actually had a very heated exchange when the MC called H on some things. Will be interesting to see if H shows up.

H has initiated several conversations lately about R. I've let my guard down and not done a very good job of validating as much of what he's said I don't agree with. I need to work on validating and not defending. I believe that's why we're fighting more. Also, he seems to be more angry when I do some things that I see as ways to distance/detach (such as declining invites).

Gotta get to work now. Will update after MC session. Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers!

Thanks,
IL