Hi, I was on my way somewhere else but caught my eye. Just a quick reading and I wanted to say a few things to help. If it isn't helpful just let me know.
I have been here since end of Dec. and gotten great support! My sitch is turning around and we are reconciling. Most of my supporters are not at this point. It does get dep. but it is possible to succeed.
Secondly, I noticed your mention of W drinking and erratic moodswings - my H was similiar - we lived in chaos much of the time and couldn't have a normal life. We S in July, he realized his problem with drinking and has been sober since Feb 1. Things are very much different between us as he describes to me how clearer his mind is and how aware he is of how his drinking "poisioned" his thinking, decision making and life in general.
