Hey Bobbi, good for you doing a martial art! Its grteat, I love it. I just got my yellow belt on Sunday and I was sooo pleased, more than I was to get my degree.
Sounds like you are pretty together and coping marvellously and I think its right to STOP trying to make his life ok, or easier and do what you want to do for yourself. He may be noticing a switch in you?
xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread