It's MY life now!!!........

[Silent Chrleader]

Well "tomorrow" wasn't exactly better. To sum it up, got e-mail from H about bankruptcy status. First communication in about a week. Told him my understanding which included filing for legal seperation (rather than divorce). One or the other is necessary for the bankruptcy. Anyway, H's reply was.....

As for the legal sep vs. divorce, I was OK with this in the past. Now I am not sure. I am thinking I want some closure to that part of my life. Lets finalize that issue when we see how the bankruptcy plays out.

I know this is no big surprise, and nothing has really changed, but I spent the rest of the day feeling pretty hopeless.

Had a couple more e-mails with him about "spousal maintenance" and how this all might work. Even though this is an 'explosive' issue, the communication went OK. I am optimistic that we will be able to come to an amicable agreement on everything.

I am setting him free......but it really really hurts.