Sandi, just a quick question.......... What are your views on the OW? First my H says a few weeks ago to my mother "Its ot an important relationship". Now he is denying he said that but says that its not important or important. He doesn't know what is going to happen. You say its not about the OP. My H as I knew him was not the sort of man to jump into affairs etc. I cant help but being run by my fear that she is his soulmate and I am and have been a dress rehearsal for the last 10 years. When our spouses work closely with the OP they have a work connection and for men its a vital part of how they perceive themselves.
He seems to have lost a sense of what is good and possible with me; he sees no possibility. I have made mistakes but I know how much love I have to give someone.
