SC and Renee, Never, ever assume what others are thinking....that gets you into trouble and barking up the wrong tree.
Be thankful I've not had anything to add to the excellent postings that both of you have received.
Hey, Snodderly.
I hope you know that I absolutely meant no disrespect at all!! Quite the contrary......I just meant that I too have struggled with following what my head tells me I should do, and the great advice I receive, rather than what my fear and instincts implore me to do!
And I always really value your wise advice......
TJ
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