My H seems to be so calm, rational and resolved about our M most of the time. Does this mean he is still in crisis (by his own admission). I guess I have always felt that you wouldnt be so "together" if you were in crisis. Ne says he has no idea what is ging to happen in his professional life (he may be out of a job from January) and his personal life (mmmmm) but he is clear about us.
Sad, you are right Snodderly, they push away the people that love them the most. I have been in relationship with him for 10 years unlike OW's 5 1/2 months.
Sometimes the fog seems so entrenched. How have others kept the faith?
