Yeah, but it is not always...it is once in awhile. And what if you just said you were going somewhere then stayed home. If he came by you could always say it got cancelled or you had to come home or basically it is none of his business what happened to your plan. I am trying to say that it is just an idea to try so that you can ease your way into setting that boundary whether he likes it or not. AKA...fake it till you make it.
