I think that stuck has a point. I believe that if you push too hard on your W she may run the other way. You said that when you do bring up R she may feel pressured and want immediate D. Like he said...live your life and see what the W wants to do.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
